Radical Candor: How Great LeadersBalance Tough Love with Genuine Care

Eagles, known for their strength and vision, are also remarkable teachers when it comes to balancing care and challenge. When eaglets are born, the mother eagle is nurturing, keeping them warm and safe. She feeds them, protects them, and makes sure the nest is comfortable. But as the eaglets grow stronger, her role shifts.

One day, when the eaglets are ready to leave the nest, the mother begins to stir things up—literally. She starts removing the soft feathers and leaves from the nest, making it less comfortable. It’s her way of nudging them to prepare for what’s next. Eventually, she pushes them to the edge of the nest, and in some cases, forces them to take that first leap. The eaglets, unsure and fearful, may falter during those first flights, but the mother eagle is always nearby, ready to catch them if they fall.

What looks harsh on the surface—pushing them out of the nest—is actually one of the greatest acts of care. She knows that they’ll never grow if they don’t face the challenge of flying on their own.